Well, this is a theme often eagerly awaited by their parents and are also often many parents complained. "Why my son did not like to study, to play alone all day" , complained a mother who attended my seminar.
For example, while our children are infants and 1 year old. He wanted to include all goods which can he held in his mouth, right? Well, most people do when it is said "uh .. it was dirty, should not be" pulling the goods. In fact this is the basic behavior when a child is learning.
Then as he started to walk, begin to want to know more about the environment, the more the prohibition issued by a parent or caregiver. Perhaps because he was tired babysitting all day, so many prohibitions issued. Yet this is their desire to know (learn) more, populate the database in his brain that was still empty and needs to be filled.
As I began to speak, asking this and that. "It's what? Why? " Answer received " LHA had been asked, now ask again, basic chatty " maybe that time caretakers and parents were tired too time keeping, so lazy and tired to give an explanation and this is a learning process of a child.
When there are new items in the home and the child wants to hold or to know more closely, then we parents and guardians keep these items from him, on the pretext of later damaged by a costly item.
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